Romantic Relationships Core Values
Studies have shown that we are motivated and make decisions based on our core values. It has also been suggested that most individuals get into romantic relationships with their unconscious mind, and they will continually be attracting the type of relationships they do not want, and this can be toxic. Why? It is because they are in line with some of their unconscious values supported by a set of romantic relationship limited beliefs.
These limited beliefs are unconscious. They are part a belief system that was put inside these individuals’ mind which is based on someone else’s dream, and they create relationship conflicts that are more permeable to assumptions, worries, anger, mistrust, and more emotional poisons.
These limited beliefs formed the grammar from which most people built their language of love that was formed from their dramatic experiences of a counterfeit version of love. These experiences, in concert with their limited beliefs, cause the most damage in their romantic relationships. They define the perceived limitations about themselves and their ability to establish the ideal standards and outcomes for how they want to be in a romantic relationship.
These individuals are called to acknowledge their limited beliefs and replace them with internal narratives that can be leveraged with their relationships’ core values. It is then they can experience a version of love that will empower them to reach within the minefields of the soul, extract their treasure, and strengthen the thread in a healthy relationship.
However, establishing the ideal standards and outcomes for how these individuals want to be in a romantic relationship is a process that requires them to be grounded in the characteristics and qualities of their relationships’ core values. The ‘things’ they need in their romantic relationship that will allow them to experience meaningful love with soul caring, compassion, acceptance, responsibility, respect, knowledge, intimacy, and greater love or soulful love.
These core values are personal. They allow people to do the work that is required to overcome the roadblocks that have detoured them from deeper relationships, cultivate greater love, and provide meaning in their romantic relationship. With that said, allow me to share my personal romantic relationship’s core values and please read them as a sample of what a set of romantic relationship’s core values can be, and they are:
Trust, intimacy, creative expression, forgiveness, affection, acceptance, attention, conscious loving, co-commitment, independence, emotional intelligence, appreciation, connectedness, compassion, freedom, soul caring, spiritual essence, romance, allowing, comfort, faith, soulfulness, growth, being in the moment, fulfillment, and adventure.
Lastly, being grounded in the characteristics and qualities of relationships’ core values is about:
Embarking on a journey that will lead them to make conscious decisions, those that will lead them to overcome the roadblocks that have detoured them from cultivating greater love.
Learning the pathway to emotional intelligence, and co-commitment to successfully experience conscious loving in their relationships.
Experiencing a whole new approach to an intimate/romantic relationship.
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Written By: Windsor Lindor © 2022
