CULTIVATING HEALTHY INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS
THE PATHWAY TO GREATER LOVE (‘SOULFUL LOVE’)…
The work to cultivate an intimate relationship can be challenging. It is also true; many realities exist when it comes to cultivating a healthy intimate or romantic relationship.
However, from my twenty years working with coaching clients, I conclude that some people experience difficulties and conflicts in their intimate relationship, because they become receptive to assumptions, worries, fear, anger, mistrust, anxiety, reactive response and revenge.
That is, they struggle to let go of old wounds, old relationship beliefs, and they stack up their intimate relationship troubles up real high, until they are convinced, they have no reason to do the work to heal and experience healthier relationship.
The conflicts and difficulties in these relationships are created because some have been "entranced" by dramatic experiences of a counterfeit version of love, and they do not believe that anyone would willingly want to meet their needs.
Nevertheless, I believe cultivating a healthy intimate or romantic relationship is possible. I have witnessed through my work with my clients who have chosen to get back to what they wanted in their intimate relationship, and uncovered the radiant, joyful heart within themselves.
They also found the courage and the commitment to go beyond their old mechanical patterns and did the work to divorce codependency. Today, they are able to accept all the parts of themselves and there is only genuine love.
Today, when my coaching clients turn into themselves and their intimate partners, they find out the following:
They feel connected to their true essence as they cultivate and nourish the needs of their authentic ‘Self’—and all the ups and down of daily living.
They have an abundant flow of creative energy because they do not squander the intimate relationship on conflicts that are never resolved.
They grow creatively as independent individuals at the same time that they grow closer together in intimacy as they allow ‘Soulful Love’ to find its home in their heart freely.
The question remains:
What would it take for you to reach within the minefields of the soul with gentle hands and extract your treasure, 'Soulful Love?'
'Soulful Love’ is more than a feeling. True love is 'Soulful Love,’ genuine love. The following list depicts some of the attributes that you will find within an intimate relationship when 'Soulful Love' is present:
Affection. Appreciation. Attention. Awareness. Co-commitment. Compassion. Connectedness. Conscious Loving. Closeness. Creative Response.
Equanimity. Friendship. Humility. Grace. Gratefulness. Growth. Happiness. Harmony. Humility. Inner Peace. Intimacy. Patience. Presence. Radical Forgiveness.
Respect. Soul Caring. Soul Freedom. Soulfulness. Trust. Understanding. Wisdom.
THE PATHWAY TO GREATER LOVE (‘Soulful Love’), INTIMACY, FULL CREATIVE EXPRESSION AND TRUST
The emphasis will be on mastery of bringing into reality the intimate relationship you truly want.
Through a safe environment, you will receive the support you need to:
Become free of the patterns of the murky past and bring healing to the wounded parts of you that often sabotage relationships.
Find true love and make a greater contribution to the relationship you desire through creative expression, intimacy, and trust.
Co-create a space where extraordinary things are more possible through the unconditional sharing of souls through conscious loving.
Written By: Windsor Lindor © 2023
